Since court she has made it so difficult to have them go with her as she will not bring them to the meeting sight, she will not work with the kids so they can do things. I do not know if you have a lawyer, but if not consult with one. well I had nothing to do, so I just sat and waited at a park and ride. To know know them. We live in TN, but here the proxy had to be someone that both parties agreed on. I know how you feel, I am right where you are My fianc, Mr. O. Sr, is currently working in Afghanistan as a government contractor. He only has temporary full custody because he filed first and he allowed the mom to have her. Dont let them scare you off with threats, you already gave him up for adoption, dont give up on him in any other way if at all possible. Jackson was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! You have a lot to weigh out and I wish you the best of luck. I called him at 7 oclock on 4th of july to let him know She was going to be staying with me. My ex doesnt let me take our son any other than 48 hour a month. She tells me that she does not have a home phone either. That day I listened as every member of we have no custody papers and i dont have $5000 for an attorney.. how do i get him back? I was wondering that since all the erroneous emails not only put my daughter in a stressful state but seemed an obvious attempt to have my child removed from my care; if he can be charged with custodial interference (where hes not related) or something else? I am a mother of 3. So my husband has been trying to fight it because he never attend or been informed of that court hearing and they refused to changed it . Keep in mind text, email, and such can be forged. Then a homeless shelter, hotel, a drug house, and back to another homeless shelter. and hes pissed because i have sole custody and hes even more possed at the amount of support he has to pay..which he comes up with stories of why he cant pay it! Ohhh I know all about the system, and how much they care about the best interest in the child(ren). We have 2 children and we filled out the timeshare as to holidays and summer visitations. 177 (2006) In order for a parent who shares joint physical custody to move out of state, s/he must meet a higher standard than a parent who has sole physical custody. It is not reasonable to expect to burden one parent with HUGE travel expenses just because the other parent moved. I currently have a restraining order against my ex boyfriend. I allowed my 9 year old son to go down to Florida, from Massachusetts, to visit my father and get enrolled in school in preparation for my following a month later. State is Maryland. I have court papers with a judges signature. Think about the support you will have by staying there where the father can help you raise the child. Thank you. What parent wouldnt work with that? Do I have a case? As luck has it my ex-wife had violated the laws of the State of Florida and becaus she fled the state court refused to inforce the law and have her return. 2018, Chapter 12. The kids do better when there is no communication. TAKE THOSE BABIES AWAY BUT IF MOMMA DOES LOVE THEM, AND HASNT ABUSED THEM HAVE THE COURT ORDER COUNSELING, BECAUSE A MOTHER AND CHILD BOND IS STRONGI CANT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU SAY, BC ITS A THREE SIDED STORY, YOUR SIDE, HERS AND HE TRUTH LET THEM BE WITH DADDY FOR NOW, DONT PIT THEM AGAINST THIER MOMMA. These children moved two years ago, he has made no effort to see them (although he has reg phone contact) and they are young, 6 and 8. I got an attorney and she never even showed up to court after I paid her over 3 grand. You may actually get custody, child support, tax deductions and best of all your child. He also had a lawyer and I didnt, so I was forced to represent myself. THE USA LAW IS A FRAUD. Custodial interference occurs when the custodial rights given by the court are violated. I surely will go and get the order. Is this considered custodial interference even though a court ordered custody order is not in place under tn law? What do i do? your question is confusing. What can I do? It includes answers to questions like: What happens to debts in a divorce?, I'm separated: Can I date?, How are family pets handled?, When can I stop paying child support?, How is alimony decided? Right upon leaving the U.S.A. his ex wife filed malicious charges against him- threatening to take the child out of the country and he lost by default. The father falsified a restraining order and after I was off of probation from falsified charges from the girlfriend, I took the kids and went back home to NM. They got on {walk-talkies} and started saying CODES I guess for us to get arrested. What are his rights? Is that a crime? He came up with a huge story that he told our daughter that she needed to stick to, however the police talked to both my ex and our daughter. Plus its my weekend with our son. But remember that state laws vary widely. you dont. Also the new guys job may require relocation at some point and the ex will do everything he can to stop it he actually told me to take him to court if I wanted to take my daughter on vacation to China. child access guidelines which is every other weekend and one night a week. Attempted to file Order to Show Cause but judge would not hear since no imminent physical danger. The older two are in college and all grown the youngest is 16 and now out of no where she wants to call and wants him to come live with her and it has become a constant mind game with all of us everytime dad says no he calls her and she calls himIs there anything we can do to stop with this BS (for lack of better word) she hasnt given a lick the last 12+ years now she wants to call constantly about his punishments what time he should be able to come home, why he cant go somewhere. I have a criminal background although I am doing good now and have been clean for two years. There is no real set schedule for visitation. If your child is no longer a USA Citizen but there was a custody in place, is that custody in place now voided? Unfortunately, many people in Tennessee face this problem every day. Youre all that matters to me. In my opinion: (a) As used in this Section, the terms "child", "detain", and "lawful custodian" have the meanings ascribed to them in Section 10-5 of this Code. He should give you the phone number regardless. The officers can assist you in the details on how to go about doing everything to make sure this doesnt happen again but make sure you file for contempt! Divorce trial is on Oct 04 here in KY and the judge issued a crminal summons for her for contempt of court ordering her to be present on Oct 04 with the children. Good luck. With time spent in early childhood development classes. They do not like their dad, are mad, and do not want to see him. As I, the doctor, and Pastor, contact the protection agency, they didnt do anything either or never filed charges against her for the several accounts of child abuse. He got mad, left said he was 18, and was going to his dads. Cuz my husbands parents have physical custody of our daughter and we only have the joint so we dont have to pay for babysitter right cuz its in there care? I filed a Motion to change custody 2 months ago. Now with that said judges love to dance around the issue and most of the time avoid the situation. I have a domestic violence injuction so we trade of at the police station. Please advise. We saw the child (Dylan) about 4 times and gave her mom a check each time we saw her. She has family that just moved back to Liberia summer of 2010 and she has on more than one occasion made the verbal threat of sending him there. If not, you need to concentrate on giving those babies all of the love and affection you can, and not speaking poorly of him or his mother, and not making your babies upset and worried or trying to get them to say bad things about the other parent. Depending on the nature of the situation, the parent may need an experiencedfamily law attorneyfor legal remedy. I would be going along with humanitarian group, too. SHES REALLY ALIENATING HIM FROM ME AS WELL? This was after getting the first two granted because I was not informed of the court date even though I talked to my exs lawyer the same day as one of the court dates the first copies I was given by my ex and his dad unsigned by any judge I now have a custody hearing later this month luckily I was able to get my daughter back the same day the judge dissolved the tro after threatening to file a kidnapping report and custodial interference. Can i leave the state and file for legal separation and custody in maryland wothout his permission. This child is from a teen pregnancy and parents were never married. Both parents are equally important. Oh, thats why you get child support? It is only july now. As my kids mother, do I have any rights to remove them from her home untill my husband and I are drug tested again? His Lawyer made the schedule for him and sent it to my lawyer and said unles I apposed it that is what we would go by, so I agreed. On my last visitation, 2 weeks ago, I had to, yet again, contact the Sherriffs office because my daughters step-mother had taken my daughter out of town (knowing ofcourse that it was my weekend). Because he attempted this once before by taking him to the other side of this country and the judge ordered that he not take my child out of the county (or state) again. If it is supervised visitation why are you concerned about him delivering the child? due to her parents interfering. A shame it wasnt something more reasonable. Please help!! Here are some of your advantages. He has visitation rights and has threatened to take me to court if I dont make them come!! If DCF finds nothing and you are still concerned then file for a modification. Now the courts want us to pay 40,000 dollars to a woman who has hide the child all these years. In the end you need to humble YOUR wants and desires for the best interests of the child and try to work to be amicable with the other parent to not create drama for the child. This weekend when I went to pick them up he made me stand out in the cold and rain with him for 2 hrs before he would let me take the kids home. I take her to see his mom and I sent him messages telling him that if he wants to see her then he can call or e-mail me and let me know! She used to live in New Jersey and we were notified by the courts there she was trying to take my custody and I have no contact. If you do not have police reports of any abuse..the judge wont listenit is not fair to your ex for the judge to believe hearsayany witnesses will be considered, but without hospital or police reports you have a very weak case. He also got me to drop all charges against This sisnt the first time Ive had to call the cops on him for not giving her back either. It depends on what the most recent court order regarding custody and visitation provides. And on several court ordered dates she has made plans for the child on that day and says that he can come too or take him to the activity instead of allowing him to plan the activity he would like to bond with his child. (I have offered to meet him in VA several times but he said he couldnt get away for it.) Next It was memorial day , It was a little aggravated at this point but she wanted to go so I let her go with him. Perhaps they will let you come by and answer his questions or some other form of brief or even supervised visitation. This was all a production, (and usually is) in order to get my children to stay 2 more days. He was abusive, left kids in dirty diapers till I got there to change them before false charges were done, I had them 75 to 80 percent of the time, he locked them in their rooms, had the bigger twin hit the smaller twin, put them in wrestling moves at age one for punishment, never admits to any wrong doing and has all of the signs of Narcassistic personality disorder. Child in now 15 years old. Being a mom or dad is more than donating a sperm or just giving birth. The father obviously wants his children so I dont think you have to worry about them being taken care of. After being served with processprior to the issuance of temporary or final order determining custody or parenting time rights to a minor child. What are my legal rights or what should I do? I am afraid that this is going to seriously confuse as well as emotionally harm my 7 yr old son. Now I get certified letters stating that if the bill is not paid they will put a lien on my property. I have never said or done anything inappropriate to my children and our current agreement does not say anything about him being able to do this. He is an attorney, at every turn Im faced with agony. With all this said I just want whats best for my daughter and her well being. Then three came and went, so did four, and around four-thirty I start freaking out, right, because no one is answering their phones. Show you have a good home for the child to visit and are educated on baby care. i have a paper by a judge giving my temporary guardianship over my grand-kids untill we go to court in September 2010 and the great grandma knowingly took them across state lines and the law has done nothing,,,how do i get them to act. What teenager could resist being chauffered to and from school every day with morning Starbucks and afternoon lunches at whatever restaurant she chose? Finally, I just got fed up with it, and I took him to see Branden instead of waiting for Branden to come up to see him. He probably scared that girl off, if shes smart. If you dont say interference with custody they will say its a civil matter. We do know where shes at now what Im asking is does anybody know what its called in Utah if its called a writ of attachment Writ of assistance writ of habeas corpus in our terms it would be a pick up order. so now the 11yr old wants to live with his mother. This is why courts will often have a general guideline about how to determine custody cases, but not mandatory statutes. Have you fought for the rights of your child, been active in their lives or signed over your parental rights or ignored a filing that you may be served. Example: Taking my kids out of the designated area & having my kids lie. Went back to court & had somevisitation removed & had the court order re-written so it was stricter. At this time our lawyer suggest just filing for child support and let her to be the one to trip up during those proceedings. Meanwhile, certified mail to the mother to stop interference with custody. I am all for your rights. Can my family keep my kids from me because I went to detox. My ex-wife has Primary custody. The Family Courts are corrupt and do not recognize parents God given rights to have a relationship with their children. the grandmother would have to do it behind her back in some way. Is this legal should I pursue it? MOST IMPORTANTLY PRAY!!! Whats happening now that they found the child? Either way hire a lawyer as this seems to be extremely messy. We have one child together. Her mother has mental issues, has taken drugs and steals and lives with her mother and dad who are not reputable people. The babys sperm donor took her to court for visitation as a method of attempting to inflict pain on my daughter. PersonallyHang in there, I know its difficult thats your baby you carried for 9 months hoping to have the father of your dreams for her, but this is what you have, try to work with it the best you can. ANY MOTHER WHO IS CUTTING OUT THE FATHER WHO WANTS TO BE IN THEIR CHILDS LIFE IS A BAD PARENT and that is psychologically proven and the Courts know this to be fact and if you prove it in Court (usually they do themselves) then the Court HAS TO PROTECT THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. was I would sneak out and hide things and stay out all night long, it quickly Then if you can prove a major change of circumstance, you have grounds to petition for modification of custody. If the parent with the child has left the state of jurisdiction how long have they been gone? Can somebody please help me understand what rights I have as my childrens mother. My ex had the police escort my kids off my property to him with no paperwork or anything. Its a tactic these piece of garbage, dorrito moms use to further alienate and control the father of the children. Finally, go to the reunion regardless if you bring the kids or not. Isnt this custodial interference? Make sure you notify the court staff as soon as you arrive in court that you don't want to meet with the other parent. You have to at least be legitimized you are naturally if you were married when the child was born again, in most states. I was so stupid then and so weak. She has has her daughter over the week-end and my grandughter has changed. So i guess its okay for people just to kidnap your child and there is nothing criminal about it. The Custodial parent was found in contempt 4 times in another state. My daughter is 6 months pregnant and the stress is tearing her up. But that is tough to prove beyond doubt in court. Is this custodial interference? 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